An initial conversation does not need to resolve everything at once. It only needs to open the door. A calm setting, honest numbers and a clear signal that the goal is to solve the problem together rather than assign blame goes a long way. Some couples find it useful to agree in advance to a single, time-limited conversation with a specific goal, such as listing every account with each balance, rather than trying to address everything at once.
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